Compared to the rest of the world, America tends to be a lot more flexible and understanding of different behaviours. While certain customs that we're used to are considered normal here, we can't say that goes for other countries. If you're planning on traveling elsewhere sometime soon, you might be interested in this article. Here are 20 American customs that are actually seen as rude or impolite abroad.
1. Wearing Shoes Indoors
A hotly debated topic all over the internet, you've probably wondered yourself whether it's okay or not okay to wear shoes indoors. The truth is, many Asians will probably give you a look if you wear shoes inside their home. In countries like China and Japan, not taking off your shoes is considered immensely disrespectful. You might as well have just told them their house is terrible - it's essentially the same thing.
2. Tipping Generously
Although tipping culture is deeply ingrained in American culture, that doesn't mean it's the same for other places around the world. In fact, in certain countries like Australia, Japan, South Korea, and so on, tipping isn't customary. It might even come across as disrespectful if you try to force a tip.
3. Being Loud in Public
Americans have a tendency to be quite loud, especially in public spaces, but that's something to be wary of when traveling to other countries. In other places around the world like Finland or Japan, they value quietness a lot more. Disrupting the peace and quiet will definitely get you a nasty look or two.
4. Using First Names Immediately
It's a little bit weird to think about, but some countries don't actually call people by their first name. That is, when you first meet someone, you might be expected to call them by a certain title or last name until you become close enough.
Think about it as if calling someone by their first name is a privilege only given to people you know well.
5. Eating on the Go
While you might be used to grabbing a quick bite to go during busy work days or peaceful strolls through the park, that's not really accepted in other countries like France and Italy. The French strongly believe food should be eaten and enjoyed at a table, while taking orders to go simply isn't even a concept in Italy.
6. Directness in Communication
It's safe to say compared to other countries, Americans have a tendency to be rather direct with their speech. While it's something you may be used to, for others, such as people in China, it can be seen as rude or disrespectful. These more reserved countries tend to practice indirect communication where group mentality is more valued than individual opinion.
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7. Hugging and Touching
You know how many of us greet strangers with a handshake or friends and acquaintances with a hug? Yeah, that won't fly in places like Japan and South Korea. Hugging and touching a stranger or someone you don't know well is behaviour that's deeply frowned upon. It just simply isn't a part of their culture.
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8. Displaying Feet
This is one behaviour that is looked down upon in many countries all across the Middle East and Asia.
While Americans aren't too fussy about bare feet, it is a big deal elsewhere in the world. Because the bottoms of your feet are considered the dirtiest part of your body, showing your soles or pointing your feet at someone is one of the rudest things you can do. Definitely watch out for that when you travel to other countries.
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9. Talking About Money
As a country built off the idea of the American Dream and finding success, you won't find people are too shy to talk about money and finances here in the US. But for other countries in the UK or Japan for instance, it can be quite the uncomfortable topic. Let's just say people aren't as open to talking about salaries there.
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10. Laughing with Your Mouth Open
In many countries in Asia, you'll often find people, particularly women, laughing with their hand over their mouth. While it's not exactly rude to not do that, you would definitely look out of place. It's been said that they do this as a sign of respect and politeness.
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11. Blowing Your Nose in Public
The next time you've got the sniffles, you might want to avoid traveling to Japan, China, or South Korea until you get over it. That's because these countries treat blowing your nose in public quite seriously.
While you wouldn't even get a second glance in America, it's seen as an extremely rude and disrespectful act in these Asian countries. You'll even see locals trying to hold it in until they're in a more private spot!
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12. Giving a Thumbs Up
Although the "thumbs up" gesture only has the most positive connotations in America, you're going to be mind blown hearing that that's not the case elsewhere. That's right, this sign of approval that means "great job"! here, actually means "up yours" in places like Greece and certain parts of the Middle East. Basically, it's the equivalent of giving someone the middle finger in those countries. Definitely something you want to avoid doing.
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13. Sitting in the Back of a Taxi
You might not think twice about jumping into the backseat when calling a taxi, but over on the other side of the world, the Aussies and Kiwis have a thing or two to say about it. In Australia and New Zealand, you'll find that everyone tends to sit in the passenger seat next to the driver. Sitting in the back is considered rude because it's as if you're not treating the driver as your equal.
14. Leaving Food on Your Plate
In many Asian cultures, there's nothing more disrespectful you can do at the dinner table than leaving food behind on your plate to be thrown away.
Not only is it seen as wasteful, it's a sign that you didn't enjoy the meal. There are also a lot of superstitions surrounding it, showing just how seriously Asians view this behaviour.
15. Smiling at Strangers
For most countries in North America, smiling at strangers isn't a foreign concept. It's almost like second nature for us. But in countries like Russia and Germany, you'll be surprised to hear it has the opposite effect. These two countries typically reserve their smiles for friends or people they know; in more serious cases, it can even come across as suspicious or rude.
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16. Pointing With Your Finger
You definitely want to avoid pointing with your index finger if you're planning on traveling to Indonesia or Malaysia. While it might not mean much in America, it's incredibly impolite to do it in these countries. Instead of using one finger which they deem to be rude, they tend to gesture with their entire hand or chin if they want to point something out.
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17. Hand Gestures While Talking
Following that point, another similar behaviour that might come across poorly in Japan and South Korea is making excessive hand gestures while talking. Anything from pointing to waving your hands around for no reason can come across as too dramatic or even aggressive.
Asian countries are generally a lot more reserved than America, so it's important to respect how they treat body language there.
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18. Chewing Gum
If you're heading to Singapore, make sure you toss out any gum you have on hand before leaving the airport. Why? You'll be shocked to hear that chewing gum in public isn't allowed! In fact, Singapore took it as far as to ban it.
19. Public Displays of Affection
Listen, excessive PDA is already a bit frowned upon in the States, so imagine just how seriously other countries take it. In many Middle Eastern and Asian countries, any form of kissing or hugging in public is seen as inappropriate, unacceptable, and possibly illegal in certain places. There's just a firm belief that you shouldn't be doing things that make other people uncomfortable.
20. Discussing Politics and Religion
Sometimes, we take for granted America's Freedom of Speech and what that means for us. In comparison to other countries around the world, the US is a lot more flexible and open about discussing various topics. But if there's one out there that isn't as welcome in other parts of the world, its politics and religion. Wanting to avoid discourse, talking about this in public is generally avoided.
