Men Need Compliments Too
Although compliments are often associated with women, men appreciate them too. Thoughtful, kind words go a long way in acknowledging their efforts, boosting their confidence, and making their day. Here are 20 compliments men secretly crave.
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1. You’re So Strong
Most men want to appear muscular. Especially if you know the guy in your life has been going hard at the gym, this compliment would mean a lot to him.
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2. I Love How You Dress
Fashion compliments are often reserved for women, but plenty of men put a lot of time and effort into developing their style too. If your guy is one of them, make sure to drop a compliment about his outfit. It’ll make his day.
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3. You Have Beautiful Eyes
Women hear this all the time, but men have beautiful eyes too! Why not compliment your guy on them? It would be a pleasant surprise.
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4. You’re a Great Listener
Men are often accused of being bad listeners despite their best efforts. Even if your guy isn’t a perfect listener, he deserves some positive affirmations when he makes the effort. It’ll give him incentive to keep up the good work.
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5. You Look Handsome
Women are often told how beautiful they look but men hardly ever get the same treatment. Make sure your guy knows when he looks good. It’ll give him a confidence boost.
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6. You’re So Good At Fixing Things
It’s common for guys to take on the role of household handyman but that doesn’t mean it should be taken for granted. Let him know how much you appreciate every fix he does.
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7. You Make Me Smile
Letting your guy know he makes you happy is sure to return the favor and put a smile on his face too. He’ll feel good about the fact that he’s making a positive impact on your life.
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8. You’re Inspiring
Every man wants to be an inspiration. Even if he just does the smallest thing in his day, there’s bound to be something you can admire, and it’s important to tell him so.
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9. You’re So Smart
Everyone wants to be smart. When he does or says something deep or gives good advice, let him know that you’ve noticed and that you find it attractive.
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10. I Have Faith in You
Life isn’t always easy, but telling your man you believe in him can go a long way. It can be a motivating factor that helps him work through even the toughest moments and gives him the courage and the strength to go forward.
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11. I Appreciate Everything You Do
Something most men certainly don’t hear enough is “thank you.” Many of the little things they do go unnoticed but pausing to communicate your appreciation is a meaningful gesture that’ll encourage him to keep at it.
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12. You Make Me Feel Safe
There’s a cultural expectation for men to be the protector, so when you communicate to him that he makes you feel safe, it’ll make him feel good. He will glow with pride knowing that he’s fulfilling his role.
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13. You Make Me Laugh
In addition to laughing at his jokes, let him know that you love his humor. It may seem redundant but it isn’t–he’ll be flattered and encouraged.
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14. I’m Crazy About You
A great way to boost his confidence and make him feel attractive is to tell him that you’re mad about him. Even if you’ve been together for decades, it’s always amazing to hear.
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15. You’re So Talented
Whether it’s a hobby or their livelihood, many men work hard to develop their skills. Hearing that their hard work is paying off will make them feel satisfied and seen.
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16. I Admire Your Ambition
Is your guy driven? Let him know you see that and admire it in him. It’s a great way to compliment his character and keep him striving.
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17. I Love How You Think
Similar to telling him he's smart, saying you love how he thinks is a compliment that’s more unique to him. It’s saying you love how his brain works and he stimulates you.
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18. You’re A Great Leader
Being a good leader is often associated with manliness. Telling your guy that you think he has good leadership skills will make him feel confident.
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19. You Smell So Good
Many of us take for granted how much effort men put into their personal hygiene. They don’t wear that cologne or aftershave for any other reason than to be appealing so make sure you comment on it.
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20. Everyone Keeps Checking You Out
Saying this to a man is a great way of letting him know it’s not just you who finds him attractive–he’s objectively alluring. It’ll flatter him and assure him you notice all he does to look good.
