Keep The Marriage Strong
We know you've all heard the saying, "Happy wife, happy life!" but what does it actually mean? Whether you're a newlywed man or an experienced husband still trying to crack the code, let us help you out. Relationships can be complicated, especially marriage, but there are steps you can take to make sure you're doing your best. Here are 20 tips for married men to keep their wives happy!
1. Do Your Part Around The House
Whether it's helping with laundry or cleaning up the backyard, make sure you do your part to help out around the house. Chores should never be designated to just one person - both partners are responsible for keeping the home neat and tidy. Besides, with the two of you doing it side by side, it makes it a lot quicker and more enjoyable.
2. Clean Up After Yourself
Don't make your wife's day even harder by forcing them to clean up after you. You're grown up, surely you can be responsible even if it takes a little extra effort on your part! After all, your partner isn't someone you can just toss your responsibilities to whenever you feel like it.
3. Plan Date Nights Together
Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't go out and have fun! To keep things fresh and exciting, plan regular date nights together so you can keep that connection and love strong. Sometimes we could all use a nice change of pace and your wife will definitely appreciate you for it.
4. Don't Ignore Her Needs
What people need in a relationship will always vary from person to person, which means you should always be actively listening to your wife to understand hers. Whether it's needing more help with chores, concerns about physical intimacy, or wanting more time together, pay attention with open ears so you can better understand what's going on in her mind.
5. Let Her Speak
It doesn't matter if you're having a fight or a simple conversation, at times, it helps to consciously think about pausing, taking a breath, and hearing her speak. It can be easy to accidentally talk over her or be too quick to share your own opinions. In these moments where she wants to be heard, make sure you give it to her.
6. Surprise Her With Something Thoughtful Occasionally
Sometimes, it's nice knowing that your partner is thinking about you throughout the day. A small something thoughtful doesn't have to be grand or expensive, it could be as little as a flower picked off the side of the road or an iced coffee to help her get through the day. These little gestures are what help to keep the love strong.
7. Say I Love You
These three little words mean so much yet aren't always said enough. Never underestimate the power of what a simple "I love you" can have on your wife. Even if you're doing all the right actions, people still want to hear it verbally.
8. Be Her Rock
All relationships come with give and take, so when you notice your wife going through something difficult, you want to make sure you're there for her. There's nothing more amazing than knowing you've got a reliable husband who will be there for you through the thick and thin. Plus, knowing you have someone to comfort you and be with you every step of the way can make any dark time seem just a bit brighter.
9. Notice Non-Verbal Cues
No matter how important communication is, all couples slip up sometimes. That's when the non-verbal cues come into play; you'd be surprised how much you can tell about your wife's feelings through her body language! So if she's struggling to get the words out, you can always use these to help you determine what the next best play is.
10. Support Her Goals
Is your wife trying to get promoted at work or switch careers entirely? Whatever she's got planned, as her husband, you should be there supporting her and rooting her on. These massive life decisions can be really stressful, but with you by her side, it'll make it so much more manageable. Besides, she's probably doing it because it's what's best for you both!
11. Cook Her Dinner
If your wife is the one preparing you delicious dinners most days, switching it up and cooking for her occasionally can be a really sweet gesture she'll appreciate. Especially if you're not the most talented chef, putting in the effort to wow her and make her happy will easily put a smile on her face. It's the thought that counts anyway!
12. Have Healthy Conflict Resolution Strategies
Married couples fight - it's unavoidable! When you're living with someone every day and sharing the same experiences, there are bound to be disagreements and arguments. And that's totally okay, if not, healthy. What matters most is how you handle it; don't leave your wife in the dark without any resolution, make sure you both come together and talk things out.
13. Go Grocery Shopping With Her
Grocery shopping is so much more fun when you go with someone! So if your wife is typically in charge of the shopping list, join in on her adventures. You'll be amazed by how such a little thing could put such a big smile on her face. It's the simple act of wanting to do things together that keep relationships happy and well.
14. Take Care Of The Kids
If you and your wife have kids together, letting her have a day off to relax while you take care of the little ones can be a really sweet way both of you can look after each other. She'll do it for you some days and you the others, but the meaning is the same: it's to get a little bit of much needed "me time."
15. Try New Hobbies Together
Whether it's hiking, sewing, or taking fitness classes together, being active and exploring new interests and hobbies as a couple can keep the passion and excitement alive. It also clearly shows a desire to be around each other and try new things, something that helps maintain any healthy relationship.
16. Travel Together
Just because you've settled down or have kids together doesn't mean that should stop you from seeing the world. Experiencing different countries and cultures together is the best way to bond so start planning!
17. Take Interest In Her Life
It could be as simple as a "how was your day?" or asking questions about something new your wife has taken an interest in. As long as you show that you care about what's going on in her life and want to know more, she'll be happy.
18. Treat Her Family Well
Now that you've married into her family, it doesn't mean you get to take a backstep. They're your family now too which means you have to put in the effort to get along and treat them well! As some of the most important people in your wife's life, she'll feel incredibly grateful seeing you care about them the same way she does.
19. Be Honest
In a marriage, one of the most important things is honesty. From spending too much on a jacket to bigger problems like getting fired, you need to be transparent with your wife. Communication is absolutely essential if you want a healthy relationship, and the first step is always making sure you're not keeping anything from each other. Hiding big secrets will only cause you both harm.
20. Be Attentive Of Her Period
When it's that time of month, women always appreciate it when their partners are extra attentive and caring. You don't need to become her 24/7 servant, but helping her make tea, giving her a hug, and picking up her comfort snacks can make her really feel loved and appreciated. If you know she'd do the same for you, put in that little bit of extra effort during these times.
