Are You Soulmates?
Forever is a long time, do you want to spend your life with your partner? Whether it was love at first sight or you’ve grown up together, how do you know if your partner is the one? From testing your relationship to the way they make you feel at home, here are 20 ways to find out if you’re compatible for life:
1. Travel Together
So you want to know if you can live together forever?–– Try traveling together. Traveling brings out a lot about someone. It shows how they handle stressful situations and how they problem-solve. Traveling with someone will also expose how similar or different you do things. If you can travel together, you can be together.
2. Travel Apart
On the other hand, traveling apart will also expose the truth about your relationship. If you’re confident to travel without your partner that shows you don’t need them you want them. If you’re missing them while you’re far apart that means you’re longing for their presence and would rather be together.
3. Live In A Small Space
If you can handle living in a tent or an RV for a couple of weeks with your partner, that’s true love. Book a road trip or rent out a tiny home together if you want to put your relationship longevity to the test. If you can live in close proximity and still want to be together, you’re meant to be.
4. They Feel Like Home
You’ll know you’re with your soulmate if they feel like home. When all you feel is comfort and ease with them by your side, you’ll be at home wherever you are. They’re your happy place in human form.
5. BFF With Benefits
“I married my best friend”! says newlyweds everywhere. It’s cheesy but it’s true–– the person you want to spend your life with should be your closest companion. You want someone who can give you the best friendship with a romantic bonus.
6. You’re A Perfect Balance
You don’t have to agree on everything–– it’s probably healthier if you don’t. You should have your own interests, hobbies, and personalities, as long as they work together. If you can balance each other out and complement their ying with your yang, that’s a perfect match.
7. You Share Life Values
To spend your life together you want to make sure you’re on the same page about it. Do you both want kids? Do you have the same housing goals? Do you both like or dislike traveling? Your journeys can look different but make sure your paths lead up to the same values.
8. You Can Be Yourself
Your soul mate knows you better than you know yourself. They love every aspect of your personality, from the pretty to the ugly. If you feel 100% comfortable being yourself around them and you never hold back, they might be the one.
9. They Challenge You
You want a partner who challenges you when it’s appropriate. You don’t want a walkover or someone who agrees with everything you say, that’s not going to help you grow. You need someone who can respectively point out your wrongs and who wants to push you to reach your goals.
10. You Both Fight For The Relationship
You’ll both do anything to keep your relationship alive. After a big fight, you don’t sulk and give each other the silent treatment for days, you figure out a way to solve the argument and talk through your issues. Fighting for your relationship sometimes means compromising or working on yourself. If that’s worth it, then you’re soulmates.
11. You Love Their Love Language
Whether it’s the same or different from yours, you love their love language. You know they’re in love with you because of the way they show you and treat you. If you both show affection and reciprocate it, that’s love, baby!
12. You’re Each Other’s Biggest Fans
Your soulmate is your biggest cheerleader and you’re their number one fan. They celebrate your achievements with you and they boast about your success to everyone. You’ll cheer each other on no matter what, even after failure or a difficult challenge. You support each other through and through.
13. There’s Trust
True love is based on trust. If you both know and understand the kind of relationship you want together, then there’s nothing to hide. When you don’t have any worries about your partner doing something behind your back, you can have an authentic long-lasting relationship.
14. You’ve Outgrown Jealousy
If it’s young love there’s bound to be some jealousy but there should be an end to that once you work through it. It’s not healthy if you or your partner get jealous all the time. A relationship without jealousy can be hard to find. If you’re with someone self-confident and trustworthy, you’ve found a gem.
15. Number One On Your Favorite Contacts
You just left the house but it’s crucial you immediately tell them that joke you just thought of so you call them on the phone. Your partner is number one on your contact list and the list holds truth. Not a day goes by without communicating with them, even when you’re days apart.
16. They’re Your Therapy
You know you’re with the love of your life when they’re your source of therapy. They know how to cheer you up and they listen to you vent. They support you when you’re at your highest highs and your lowest lows.
17. You Love Them Inside And Out
It’s important to love their appearance but it’s what’s inside that truly counts. With every quirk and habit, you should be attracted to their personality even more than their face. If you stare into their beautiful eyes and into their soul, you’re in love.
18. You Show Off Each Other
You and your partner put each other on pedestals. Your soulmate is someone you want to show off to your friends and family. You want the world to see who you’re in love with and how lucky you are to be with them. If you brag about your partner, you likely want them by your side for life.
19. You’re Equals
You both wear the pants in this relationship. Your true love should treat you like an equal and you should do the same. No matter your gender, your social status, or your ethnicity, a soulmate will make you feel equal in the relationship.
20. Can’t Picture A Better Life Without Them
How do you know your partner is the one? Well, can you picture your life without them? If the answer is no, you may have met your match. They make your life better in every way so you want to hold on to them forever.
