The 10 Least Attractive Hobbies Men Have According To Women & The 10 Most Attractive


The 10 Least Attractive Hobbies Men Have According To Women & The 10 Most Attractive


It's About What You Do Too

Attraction doesn't just lie with physical appearances, what you love and do matters to women too. Connecting on a deeper level by sharing the same hobbies and interests means so much more than you might think. And as it turns out, many women already have an opinion on some of the most popular activities in the world. Here are 10 of the least attractive hobbies men have according to women, and 10 of the most attractive. How many do you agree with?

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1. Pokémon

For some, Pokémon is more than just a game, a TV show, or cards you can collect: it's a lifestyle. Some people take this hobby to the next level, becoming completely obsessed with spending insane amounts of money trying to collect the best cards. Many women wouldn't be happy hearing their partner spent $2000 on packs and getting no returns. 

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2. Comic Books

Sadly, comic books have always been associated with "nerds" or "geeks" in society, two labels that aren't seen in the best of light. And while this hobby has grown in recent years thanks to Marvel and DC movies making them popular in the mainstream community, it's still not a hobby that typically resonates with women. Only talking about comics and heroes all day make it hard to connect on a deeper level, especially in a romantic sense.

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3. Crypto

We know you're tired of hearing about Crypto, but if there's one thing you've likely learned about it, it's that it can be very dangerous to invest in. And because it's so risky, hearing someone say that it's their hobby immediately sends alarms ringing in your head. Hobbies that are so money-focused are just plain worrisome.  

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4. Anime

Though anime is a huge genre of entertainment that is beloved by people all over the world, it can be taken too far when people become obsessed with it. Women aren't particularly fond of when men become obsessed with certain "waifus" or start blurring the line between their reality and the animated world. It can lead to some cringy habits that aren't seen as attractive for most women. 

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5. Gambling

A line always needs to be drawn between hobby and addiction. For something like gambling that requires spending tons of money for potentially no return, it can easily be seen as irresponsible or reckless. It's even worse when red flags are being waved that it's turning into an addiction. 

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6. Clubbing

While some people might see clubbing as a way to have fun and dance the night away, it's sadly generally stereotyped in a more negative light. Commonly associated with flirting, cheating, and being reckless and carefree, these are behaviors and traits that most women don't look for in their partners.

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Unfortunately, this hobby is typically received poorly because of what it's tied to. 

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7. Doom Scrolling

No one enjoys talking to the back of someone's phone, so if your favorite hobby is scrolling endlessly on the web, it's going to tick off a lot of people. For women who appreciate being heard and seen, this is an especially annoying hobby to deal with.

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8. Gaming

We know you hear about it all the time online, but for many women, it's simply true: they'd prefer it if their boyfriends weren't huge gamers. Many see it as time taken away that they could be spending together, especially if they don't enjoy playing games themselves. They just want their partner's love and attention is all!

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9. Online Trolling

Yes, online trolling is a hobby for some people, and for many women, it's one they don't appreciate or find attractive. These individuals love playing pranks on others online, saying careless things, or even leaving mean comments. Just because you're behind an anonymous name doesn't mean it doesn't speak to your character. Women know this and take that into account. 

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10. Taxidermy

Imagine walking into someone's house that's covered with animals all across the walls. There's something a bit unsettling about taxidermy that doesn't quite sit right with a majority of the population.

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Forget about just women, this is one hobby that not everyone can get behind, especially if they're sensitive about animals. 

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1. Learning New Languages

With certain languages like French and Spanish being deemed some of the sexiest in the world, wouldn't it be a major bonus if you found out your partner was learning them? Not only showing an interest in connecting with other parts of the planet, this hobby is one that focuses on bettering and improving themselves. Who wouldn't appreciate that?

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2. Reading

A love for reading is considered an attractive trait because it doesn't just show off one's intelligence, it demonstrates an interest in being creative, using your imagination, and an appreciation for the quiet. Women absolutely love hearing about the books their partner is reading and all the unique worlds they're jumping into. It's a great conversation starter!

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3. Cooking

What's more romantic than coming home to a delicious meal prepared by your boyfriend or husband? Knowing that he enjoyed doing it. Having cooking as a hobby is something many women will claim is incredibly sexy. Not only is it fun enjoying such tasty dishes, it's a hobby that's focused on providing for other people, something women find extremely attractive. 

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4. Playing An Instrument

Thanks to all those romantic movies, women love it when men are able to play instruments like the piano or guitar.

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After all, being serenaded is a dream for some! It's such a beautiful hobby that demonstrates hard work and dedication, two traits no women would complain about. 

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5. Sports

Men who love playing sports doesn't just mean they take good care of their body, it means they enjoy mastering their skills in a specific field. There's nothing more appealing than watching your partner in their element as they dribble down the field, dunk a basketball, or hit a homerun. Women especially love watching their partners being active and doing something they enjoy. 

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6. Photography

A man who knows how to take a good photo? Specifically a photo of their partner? We know so many women who'd sign up for that! Not only is photography a beautiful art that results in stunning work you can look at, knowing you've got your own personal photographer is definitely a plus! 

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7. Painting

Women absolutely love and appreciate men who embrace their creative, artistic side. It's not just impressive being with someone who can create the most gorgeous pieces, it's amazing getting to witness their skill and dedication to their craft. Painting is an incredibly detailed and finnicky hobby that requires so much patience and time. Seeing men dedicate themselves to it is very attractive.

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8. Hiking

The world is your oyster, so why not explore it? Hiking is a fun, outdoorsy activity that is best enjoyed when you're with other people who know what they're doing and love it too. There's just something unexplainably handsome about a man who loves hiking; maybe it's because women love how it showcases how fit and into nature they are!

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9. Traveling

A man who wants to explore and experience new cultures with you? Sounds like a match made in heaven! Finding the perfect travel buddy can be a lot of work, meaning if you're able to find a man who feels the same way and wants to go on adventures together, it's a pairing worth pursuing. 

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10. Gardening

Women love seeing men engage with their softer side and participate in hobbies that are calmer and more therapeutic. It just means they know how to unwind, and it's a relaxing hobby that the two of you can do together. Think about how fun it would be learning how to garden side by side while making your home more beautiful by the day. Men who can plant get bonus points for most women!

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