Yes, You Have To Ask Your Girlfriend To Be Your Valentine
Love is in the air and with Valentine's Day just around the corner, men are scrambling to put together romantic gifts in preparation for the big day. If you're nervous or still waiting to pop the question, we've got some tips for you. Show your girl that you care with these thoughtful ways of asking women to be your Valentine. A little bit of extra thought goes a long way!
1. With Flowers
It's a classic for a reason, right? Though some guys might think flowers are overdone or cheesy, no girl would ever complain about this simple and considerate gesture. There's something inherently romantic about being gifted flowers, which works as a perfect complement to getting asked to be someone's Valentine. Just make sure you know what her favorite flower is!
2. With A Card
If you struggle with words, write it down instead! A heartfelt, sweet message tucked away in a beautiful Valentine's Day card is the perfect thoughtful yet easy way to ask someone to be your Valentine. Whether you buy the card or make it yourself, what matters to women most is what you put inside it.
3. With Some Homemade Baked Goods
Women will be really wowed if their partner shows up with some homemade baked cookies, cupcakes, or chocolate-covered strawberries when popping the Valentine question. The fact that they made the goodies themselves, whether they're a seasoned baker or first-time newbie, tells you immediately it's from the heart.
4. With Store-bought Goodies
Listen, if baking is your worst enemy, don't worry. It's the thought that counts! Show you care (even if it's not homemade) by surprising your girl with an array of her favorite sweet or savory treats. Nothing tells a women your partner knows you well than by knowing your exact food preferences.
5. With Unique Bouquets
Who says bouquets always need to feature flowers? If you love stepping outside of the box and taking unconventional approaches, we know your lady would love being surprised by a bouquet of her favorite things. You can make it out of her favorite candies, crocheted flowers, or even chicken nuggets on a stick became viral as a cute Valentine gift.
6. With A Homecooked Meal
It's true what they say, that the fastest way to reach a woman's heart is through her stomach! After a long day at work, nothing feels more comforting than coming home to a homecooked meal prepared by your special someone. It's sweet, romantic, and perfectly sets you up to ask her to be your Valentine.
7. With A Hug
Short on cash? Romantic moments are priceless and have nothing to do with the price tag. A simple hug after asking the question will do the trick, especially if you know she loves a bit of physical affection. No one ever said simple gestures weren't appreciated!
8. With A Scavenger Hunt
If you've got some time on your hands, why not take the extra mile? Women will always appreciate it when their partners put in the effort and time. It's not just about the money! To really impress your girl, lead them on a short but fun scavenger hunt that ends with you finally popping the Valentine's Day question. They can't say no to that!
9. With Chocolates
Similar to flowers, people often think gifting chocolates is a cringy act that no girl can appreciate anymore. That's anything but the truth! Who would ever turn do this sweet treat? It's traditional but classy and romantic at the same time, meaning it'll never hurt to throw in a box as you ask the question.
10. With Balloons
For women who love a bit of drama and theatrics, nothing feels more adorable than being gifted a bunch of heart balloons as you're asked to be someone's Valentine. It's fun, light-hearted, and gives the question the perfect touch. There's no need to make things serious; this holiday is all about love and excitement anyway!
11. With A Gift
A woman's eyes will always light up the moment they see a little wrapped gift with a bow on top, so why not use that to your advantage this Valentine's Day? It doesn't have to big or expensive, just a simple little gift with some thought put into it will make her smile.
12. With Sincerity
This is one that requires no money on your part. Sometimes, just hearing the words "Will you be my Valentine" is enough - as long as its done with genuine feeling. If you ask thoughtlessly as if you're brushing it off, no woman would want to say yes. Look her in the eyes and speak from the heart.
13. With A Playlist
Mixed tapes might be outdated but Spotify playlists sure aren't. Dazzle your girl with a romantic Valentine's Day-themed playlist that will have her heart swooning. Make sure you add in all those lovey-dovey Ed Sheeran hits too! She'll definitely be excited for the day to arrive if you put in this much effort. Besides, it means you'll have all the right tunes ready for playing the moment it hits February 14.
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14. With A Teddy Bear
Some girls might think teddy bears are cliche and overrated Valentine's Day gifts, but let's be honest, none of them would ever realistically say no to one. Because really, what's cuter than being asked to be someone's Valentine while being gifted a cute and cuddly plushie to hug on the side.
15. With A Scrapbook
If you really want to achieve that wow factor, consider the beautiful gift of a memory book containing the sweetest photos and messages. If you've been with your lady for a while, filling up a scrapbook with these lovely memories might just make her cry tears of happiness. We can't imagine you'd be turned down with a gift like this!
16. During A Sunset
The setting can really make or break the romantic vibe you're trying to create. So instead of wasting time and money, it's time to lean on Mother Nature for a helping hand. Embrace the raw and natural beauty of sunsets to give your Valentine's "proposal" that extra dreamy touch.
17. With A Video Montage
More of a tech kind of guy? If physical scrapbooking seems tedious and boring, go down the digital route to create a video montage which captures the same nostalgic beauty. We know for a fact that any woman would appreciate the time and effort put into something so thoughtful.
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18. With A Custom-Made Puzzle
If you really want to go above and beyond, creating a custom-made puzzle that leads to the words "Will you be my Valentine?" is a creative and fun way to pop the question. It's two birds with one stone - an activity and "proposal" all in one!
19. Under The Starry Sky
Move aside sunset, you've got some real competition for most romantic background! Sunsets are beautiful but so is the starry night sky that brings about such a peaceful and quiet energy. If you and your lady are both night owls, it might feel extra personal asking her to be your Valentine while the rest of the world is asleep. It'll just be you two in that moment together.
20. With A Matching Keychain
Don't be afraid to lean into the heart theme for Valentine's Day. To really show your partner you love her, along with asking her to be your Valentine, preparing a simple matching keychain with a romantic or cute theme is an easy way to get her to smile. It's a small gesture that shows you want to keep a part of her with you at all times - she'll love that!
