Singles Just Want To Have Fun
Sometimes Valentine's Day sucks when you're single. Whether you're dealing with heartbreak or not, you'd rather not watch happy couples make out at the restaurant table. Instead of sulking in your room this Valentine's Day, face the day head-on and do something for you! From self-care activities to funny events with friends, here's a list of things singles should do on this Hallmark holiday:
1. Take A Random Class
Having no plans on Valentine's Day is the perfect excuse to try something new. From dance class to pottery, sign yourself up for a class you've always wanted to try. It'll make you feel good stepping out of your comfort zone and you'll meet new people too.
2. Throw A "Galentine's Day Party"
A Galentine's Day party (or Guylentine's) is when you invite all of your single gals or guys over for a party. You can treat it like a low-key therapy session for venting and gossip, or just ignore the day altogether and have fun with your friends. Throw on a playlist with songs about heartbreak and revenge, and dance the night away.
3. Book A Photo Shoot
It's time to fall in love with yourself! Book a photo session that makes you feel good inside and out. Go bold and do a boudoir shoot or book a portrait photographer that suits your personality. Valentine's Day is the perfect time to do something brave and full of self-love.
4. Tragic Love Song Karaoke
Let it all out singing Adele's "Someone Like You" at the top of your lungs. Host a home karaoke party or book out a room at your favorite spot. You and your friends can forget about your exes with a good ol' sing-a-long party.
5. Comedy Night
Laughter is the best medicine so they say. Whether your heart is broken or not, go see a comedy show this Valentine's Day and laugh love away. Giggle away at an open-mic night or find out what comedy clubs are hosting a Valentine's special.
6. Lingerie Gift Exchange
You definitely don't need a partner to wear lingerie! You can treat a lingerie gift exchange like "Secret Santa" where everyone involved buys something for the person they randomly choose. Giving nightgowns and bralettes to your closest gal pals is a sweet way to get involved in Valentine's Day gifting.
7. Treat Yourself
It's a day often celebrated with sweet treats so what's not a better excuse to indulge? Treat yourself to a box of chocolates or go out and have dessert for dinner. You can recreate your favorite treats at home or invite friends over for a sundae party.
8. Spa Day
Single on Valentine's Day means you deserve some self-caring "me-time". Treat yourself to a day or evening at the spa and relax with a massage, a facial, or a pedicure. Make it a friendly affair and take a few pals with you to enjoy thermal pools and saunas together.
9. Buy Yourself Flowers
If Miley Cyrus says she can by herself flowers, than so can you. You don't need someone else to buy you a bouquet, you're perfectly capable of picking out your favorites yourself. Decorating your space with plants and flowers fills the atmosphere with fresh scents and sights that'll boost your mood.
10. Retail Therapy
Valentine's Day is just another commercial holiday anyway. Treat yourself to a little retail therapy and buy yourself a gift. From a new pair of shoes to a video game, today's the day to spoil yourself.
11. Ecstatic Dance
If your city doesn't host an ecstatic dance you can host one at your house. An ecstatic dance typically involves an hour or two of pure free-style dancing. It's a no-judgement zone that lets dancers boogie without care and let off some steam.
12. Plan A Getaway
If you have no plans on Valentine's evening, why not use the time to plan for the future? Planning something to look forward to will keep your mind away from negative thoughts and you can focus on something exciting. It's a night productivity and joy, win-win.
13. Write Valentine Cards To Friends
Fuel your nostalgia with Valentine cards! You don't have to be in elementary school to get involved in this adorable tradition. Writing nice greetings to loved ones will make you feel all warm and fuzzy just as you'll make them feel.
14. Dinner Date With A Friend
You don't have to be in a romantic relationship to go out for a nice meal. Take a friend on a date to a favorite restaurant and chat the night away over dinner. Wine-ing and dining with a close friend is exactly what you need.
15. Games Night
It's a day for love and laughs! Host a games night or meet up with friends at a board game cafe for a night of friendly competition. You could also get quizicle and compete in Valentine-themed trivia.
16. Take A Day Trip
Who says it isn't healthy to run away from your problems? If you're not feeling up to staying home on Valentine's Day why not spend some time away? There's lots of exploring to do! Check out a nearby town you don't often visit or learn something new at a city museum.
17. Social Media Break
If you don't want to watch happy couples eating heart-shaped pretzels on Valentine's Day, don't scroll on Instagram or Facebook. It's a good idea for everyone to take a break from social media sometimes and the day of love could be the perfect opportunity. Engage yourself in activities that are off-screen like reading a book or going on a hike.
18. Art Therapy
With a little paint, anyone can be an artist. Art therapy has proven to release stress and boost serotonin. You can take an art class at a local studio or find one online to do at home. If you're not up for class, simply scribble in a coloring book or get messy with paint or sculpting clay.
19. Self-Love Night
No plans, no problems. Take the night to enjoy some self-loving. Pamper yourself with a face mask or draw yourself a bubble bath, candles and all. Do something that makes you feel good by embracing Valentine's Day with a romantic night for one.
20. Baking Night
Sweet treats and Valentine's Day go hand-in-hand. Have an evening of baking up a storm, trying out new recipes or sticking to your favorites. It's a good excuse to create a gourmet dessert you wouldn't make on a regular night.
